The Youngers

The Youngers are those who are the second or third kids in the family. They are usually those kids who receive more attention from their parents and irritation from their elder brothers and sisters. It is common that parents care greatly about their younger kids; they care about them more than they care about their elder kids. There is nothing bad in this and it doesn't mean that they love them more.

Though, it is a thing that is hard to explain for elders. They recognize lack of attention of parents as lack of love. It is hard for kid to realize that parents still love him or her as much as they loved them before. The elders recognize lack of attention as great offence and they get frustrated with this fact. Sometimes, the anger towards youngers appears.

And the youngers, in their turn, percept such state of things sharply. They are kids though they are able to realize that there is something wrong in it. But they are kids and they are not able to deal with this problem. They see fights between their elder brothers and sisters and their parents and they are afraid of those fights. So, they try to do their best in order to improve the situation.

And the best way they usually manage to find is the way of obedience to every member of their family. Such behavior makes them angels in the eyes of parents and irritates elders. It is important for parents to be wise enough and to explain their children the real state of things. Otherwise they will spoil everything and will have a number of troubles conditioned by misunderstanding.